Include personal pictures with your stories to get attention and to deliver the richness of your message. This picture taken at my 1994 wedding shows a happy bride – in contrast to the story of the wedding, and the marriage, which lasted only three years. Writing my memoir will tell more, but here is a vignette among several about the wedding (with the names changed). As you’ll see in the following photos, the right photograph can make or break your story. This photo of the happy bride only helps take you back to the day when….
“You did what?” gasped my fiancée. I repeated patiently, “I invited Teresa, my co-worker who welcomed me when I moved to Columbus [Georgia], to our wedding and reception.” Richard was turning pale. “But it’s at the Moose Lodge in Phenix City, Alabama. We don’t allow blacks there!” It was my turn to gasp. I had never seen a black person at the Moose Lodge bar where Richard’s family were strong participants. I was so naïve it had never dawned on me to ask why.
“That’s just too bad,” I managed to say, “I also invited our state representative, a black civil rights attorney who is a friend from my second job in Columbus!”
There was no way I would un-invite these people. We turned to the matriarch of Richard’s family for help. My future mother-in-law was also President of the Moosettes. She cut an imposing figure and could be quite vindictive. So when my friends arrived, Mom stood at the door, welcomed them, and walked them in to a seat at her own table. Not a negative word was said. I guess you could say we integrated the Phenix City Moose Lodge that day, if only for a day…
This photo illustrates a picture book I am writing for children, The Chickens of Westcrest Drive. I photographed the urban chicken movement taking hold across the street from our home in south Nashville, and became a part of it. The book will explore the power and strategies of local activism, too. Chicken laws changed!
You know the impact of a personal photo. You show one on your phone, on Facebook, or in your scrapbook, and wait for the reaction. But where was the story? Add the where, when and who of that photo, and you have placed your story in a setting, just like that of a story or a novel. Fleshing out your story is another skill, but a good photo will set up the story and allow you to add to it.
Whether writing a book or making a meme or poster, your illustration should punch up the message. Sometimes, a photo makes the story. In my book editing and publishing work with authors, I have seen some unusual photos used effectively:
Joe B. Chapman, Jr. signed this cross before it was raised at Ridgecrest Baptist Church in Jackson, Mississippi. Joe sold his automobile dealership in Murfreesboro, Tennessee and became a minister. He and his wife, Dixie, tell the story in faith of finding Joe’s true vocation in his book, Let’s Try Again, © 2017.
The Hermitage Hotel hosted many milestone events in the life of Mary Binkley Williams, as she tells in her story, “My Wonderful Castle.” Mary was a child in 1929 when she first visited her uncle at the Hotel. The story was published in “Reflections from the Past, the Hermitage Hotel Historical Quarterly”, in 2017. It will be in her forthcoming memoir, My Cup Runneth Over. Photo © 2009 Mary Binkley Williams.
This picture of Gigi Goodall of Cumberland Furnace, Tennessee, becomes especially poignant, when you know its story. The picture was taken at a temporary home in California. Do You Love Me? ©2013, tells her story of repeated abandonment’s by her parents, and her adult life spent helping many, many others to find a home.
This photograph was taken after the fact, to illustrate a key event in Held by the Hand of God by Joe Laws, ©2013. It plays an important part in his story of a miraculous near-death experience and recovery. Joe also used his X-rays from Vanderbilt University Medical Center to illustrate a successful new procedure: titanium ribs!
The cover photo for Mary Mallen’s memoir, Stops Along the Way, ©2014, shows her family on the road during the Great Depression years. Dad was a traveling salesman, and the family lived in a hand-built trailer pulled behind their car. Mary opened her own travel agency when she grew up, pioneering the concept of economy airline travel.
I’ll be teaching more about the use of personal photographs in an upcoming class, “Use Photos to Tell Your Story” for Nashville Community Education. Participants will be bringing photos, and I can’t wait to see them and hear the accompanying stories! Look for my other NCE classes, “Time to Tell: Write Your Family History Now” and “Online Self-Publishing”. See samples of other Tennessean’s personal history books and my credentials at PerfectMemoirs.com; and read “Best Book Ever”, my blog that helps you write your own best book ever!
“Every Picture Tells a Story, (Don’t It)?”
Rod Stewart, 1971 #1 Album
Blog written by Deborah Wilbrink
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